The pastor or church staff member or the chairman of a committee or a church officer has overstayed his/her welcome.
How to tell.
One church I pastored–FBC of Columbus, Mississippi–had a vivid illustration of what happens when a member holds a position so long they begin to “own” it. Across the street from the synagogue sat the funeral home, owned by one of our deacons. One day this good man told me, “Preacher, we could have bought the land the synagogue is sitting on for a pittance years ago.” (It abutted the back of our sanctuary.)
He said, “When the house that used to sit on that property came up for sale, the people wanted $30,000 for it. I was willing to raise the money and buy it. I felt we’d be needing that property in the future.”
“The trouble was that Mr. McClanahan, the church treasurer who had held that job for decades, vetoed it. He said that was just too much money for that piece of land and we would not pay it.”
“No one, including the preacher, wanted to stand up to McClanahan, so we let it go.”
“And now,” the deacon said, “We can’t touch that piece of ground for a million dollars.”
He was right in that; after all, I’d asked around discreetly and found that out.
One church where I was preaching recently was in the act of trying to dislodge a church secretary who had held that office since Noah was a little boy. Even though she was in her mid-70s and long overdue for retirement, she would not budge. As the unofficial church boss, the woman would not change her way of doing things, would not agree that the pastor had the right to have an administrative helper who would do what he asked, and would not agree to go away quietly. (I have no idea how it turned out. These things rarely go smoothly.)
Sometimes it’s the pastor, sometimes another church worker. How to get rid of them is one subject. But our subject today is:
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