Pastor, Leave the False Humility Behind

We’ve all seen it and some of us have done it.

The pastor strides to the pulpit, opens the Bible, reads his text, announces his subject, then begins with an apology. “I have no right to speak to you on this subject.” “Many of you know more about this subject than I do.” “I’m not sure why the Lord laid this on my heart, but I’m going to give it a try.”

That sort of thing.

It feels to the well-meaning pastor like transparency, like he’s leveling with his people, admitting what they already know–that he’s human and fallible. A fellow struggler. One of them.

It feels to most of the congregation like, “Well, if you don’t know, we sure don’t. Get it over with and let’s go home.”

I rise this evening, pastors, to say to you that this kind of false humility has no place in the Kingdom of God. It most certainly has no place in the pulpit where God expects His servant to be bold and His people expect their pastor to be faithful.

What it does is cut the ground out from under everything the minister is about to share. It diminishes the authority with which God fully intends him to proclaim His Word. He ties his own hands and weakens his effectiveness before he even begins.

Now, there is an opposite side to this of course, and that’s when the pastor approaches the sermon as though he were the Lord God Himself and gives the impression that his word is the final one. This is pride.

The first is fear.

It is fear that causes a pastor to undercut his sermon before he even delivers it with apologies of inadequacies and confessions of weakness and pleas for understanding.

Neither pride nor fear is welcome in the Lord’s pulpit.

Both are ditches to be avoided. In between lies the road.

When God called Jeremiah to the ministry, the young man began to protest. He was too young, too ill-prepared, too frightened of audiences. But God would have none of that.

“Do not say ‘I am a youth.’ Because everywhere I send you, you shall go. And all that I command you, you shall speak.”

“Do not be afraid of them, for I am with you to deliver you, declares the Lord.” (Jeremiah 1:7-8)

“Now, gird up your loins, and arise, and speak to them all which I command you. Do not be dismayed before them, lest I dismay you before them.” (1:17)

Did you get the three prohibitions God gave this poor preacher? Do not blame your youth, do not be afraid, and do not get stage fright.

The last one is particularly appropriate to some of us, I think. If you get stage fright before your audience, the Lord said, I will humiliate you in front of them.

God is not honored by false humility in His servant.

Stand up straight. Look your audience in the eye. Speak out strongly and confidently. This is not about you; it’s about the Lord God and the message He has for these people. You are merely the mouthpiece.

There’s the clue to the problem: we think it’s about us.

Preachers–especially young ones–are prone to become impressed at the role they are called to fill. The realization that he will be standing before hundreds of people–all of them looking his way and hanging on his every word (they aren’t, but it feels that way at first!)– can be a heady elixir coursing through the young minister’s veins, stronger than the deadliest drug. It blocks all reason, inflates the ego, and–well, okay, you get the picture.

That’s one reason why the most effective preachers are married.

No one brings the man of God down to earth and tethers him to reality like a good wife.

If he is stupid, and let’s pray he isn’t, the preacher will begin to resent his mate for what he feels is her lack of support. The very idea of her calling attention to his humanity, reminding him of a misstatement, praying for him to grow.

He may begin to daydream of some airhead cutie he knew in high school or college who adored him and wonder how much more successful he could be had he chosen someone like her.

This is foolishness of the worst sort. Unless he wakens from this folly, his ministry is down the tube.

It has happened. Far too many times, believe me.

Supposing the young minister does awaken and plants his feet solidly on the ground and pulls his head out of the clouds, now the pendulum starts to swing the other way. He becomes too enamored by his nothingness.

He gravitates toward Scriptures such as the one in Second Corinthians 12 reminding us that it’s all right to be weak, that “when I am weak, then am I strong” and “I take pride in my weakness.”

I remind pastors of all ages and experience, but particularly young ministers, that you are not nothing. You are an ambassador of the Lord, a servant of the King of Kings.

But neither are you everything. You are a messenger, not the message. You are the servant sent to wash feet and announce the good news.

Here are four statements that sum up the plan God has for His minister who will be declaring His message:

First: God called you into this. (If He didn’t, please stop now. You’re treading on holy territory.)

Second: You have searched the Word, spent time on your knees and in your study, and have in your heart and on your mind the message you believe God wants delivered. (If you have not done these things, then do not preach. Call in sick or something. Never enter the pulpit without God’s message.)

Third: The people need what you have come to say. (This is the area where I have fought my worst battles. Recently as I was five minutes away from bringing a sermon on the church, the thought occurred to me that “these people believe in the church; it’s a Sunday night and they’re here, for pete’s sake! Why are you preaching this?” Then, I sobered up. Just because they are here does not mean they know this. And even if they did, a good sermon will take something we already know and drive home the importance of it in a new and strong way, and don’t we all need that from time to time! So, I recovered and preached the message and God blessed it.)

Fourth: It is the will of God that you stand there in the authority and power of the Lord and give it your all.

Keep saying to yourself that it’s not about you. Keep your focus off yourself and by all means, keep it off the audience. Stay close to the Lord who sent you and who gave you this message to share.

When the Apostle Paul thought of his young protege, Pastor Timothy, serving God down in Ephesus, he knew some of the battles this shy preacher was dealing with. Again and again, we hear him calling Timothy to speak up confidently and speak out boldly the message of the Lord.

“God has not given us the spirit of fear (or timidity)….” (II Timothy 1:7)

“Do not be ashamed of the testimony of our Lord….” (1:8)

“You, my son, be strong in the grace that is in Christ Jesus….” (2:1)

“Be diligent to present yourself approved to God as a workman who does not need to be ashamed….” (2:15)

“I solemnly charge you….preach the word, be ready in season and out of season, reprove, rebuke, exhort, with great patience and instruction….” (4:1-2)

Don’t sell yourself short, young preacher. Every congregation on the planet will have critics only too ready to call attention to your shortcomings. Don’t help them. Prove them wrong by your faithfulness.

Preach the Word.

5 thoughts on “Pastor, Leave the False Humility Behind

  1. Since I’m retired can I call those sorts of behavior “pious drivel.” I don’t think preachers mean what they are saying. They want to sound holy, and that’s bunk. Fortunately, we don’t hear nearly as much ministerial tone as we used to. I strongly believe most laymen respect a guy who is comfortable with who he is and with what God called him to be. We don’t have to act humble, and we sure don’t need to play God. True humility, sure, and confident,bold proclamation, yes. But let’s stay real, for they live in a real world.

  2. Several times I’ve heard preachers say, “Well, I’m no theologian . . . ” At that point I want to say, “Then sit down and shut up. You don’t have anything meaninful to say.” If we pastors are not the theologians of our congregations, then our churches will be rudderless in the sea of aberrant doctrines in which we are currently sailing.

  3. Back in the early 60’s, I pastored a church 100 miles from Birmingham and it would be around 9 P.M. to drive the 100 miles back home. Since I had opportunities to preach in other places, I would call attention to the fact that hardly any churches were having Sunday Night services any more. Years later, it finally dawned on me that when I passed those ‘closed churches’, it was usually ten P.M. anf after and the congregations had long gone home. Youth is wonderful but it is no substitute for wisdom.

  4. Someone told me about a retired pastor (it wasn’t me!) who peppered his sermon on remarks about how old he was. My friend said, “When he got through, we thought he must be 200 years old!” For my money, that’s false humility and another way of undercutting his effectiveness. No matter our age or physical condition, it’s critical that we preachers keep reminding ourselves as we step toward the pulpit, “This is not about me! It’s about declaring the Lord’s message!”

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