I’ve not pastored since the Spring of 2004, and so have the perspective of a good many years on this subject.
I have, of course, been in church all that time–for five years as director of missions for the SBC churches in the New Orleans area, retiring in 2009–and ever since. Probably two-thirds of the Sundays have been preaching in churches far and wide, big and small, contemporary and traditional, impressive and otherwise. For the last 10 years, we’ve lived in the metro Jackson, Mississippi area and belonged to the great First Baptist Church, a congregation I served in my early 30’s.
I have always loved the Christmas season. I enjoy the constant carols in the department stores (although I confess that Brenda Lee’s “Rock Around the Christmas Tree” and a couple other seasonal things have outlived their usefulness with me!) and browsing the stores and the displays some stores still make.
One night last week, I traveled 3 hours up and 3 hours back to hear the combined choirs of the Columbus MS churches present Handel’s “Messiah” at the Catholic Church. It was beyond wonderful.
I’ve drawn hundreds of children at several schools and libraries this month, and preached a couple of times.
I don’t miss pastoring churches, but if I were the pastor during the Christmas season, here are a few things I would do…
–I would plan my calendar to include family time and ‘do nothing’ time. The human spirit needs such rest periods.
–I would visit every nursing home in the area with gifts. I would take along a child or two. (The other day someone gave me some interesting candy canes. For the rest of the day wherever I went, in stores and on sidewalks, I handed out candy canes and wished everyone a Merry Christmas.
–I would make myself available for every retirement home/assisted living place to do a short Christmas program during December and would bring gifts to all the residents. Likewise for jails and homeless shelters, anywhere I’m needed.
–I would make sure the Angel Tree program was alive and well in my church, as it blesses the families of incarcerated prisoners.
–I would support the Operation Christmas Child with its shoe boxes. People love doing this.
–I would never pass a Salvation Army kettle without making a donation. I do this now, but if I were pastoring, I’d encourage my flock to be generous here too.
–I’d promote our denomination’s big Christmas offering for international missions.
Oh, and one thing more: I would not worry about protecting the people from requests for money. As a friend said, “I don’t have to protect my people’s billfolds; they do that very well themselves.”
–I would overeat, of course. Because I always do at this time of the year. (Well, okay, in my last years I’ve become a Type One diabetic, so we’re pretending here, so in my daydreams I can eat anything I wish!!)
–I would do two things at every musical presentation at my church: Welcome everyone up front, then conclude the program with a brief presentation of the message of Christmas and an invitation for people to give their hearts to Christ.
–I would carve out some quiet space on my calendar for myself and for my wife and me to be alone and still and together. (I’m aware I already said this more or less above, but it’s important enough to repeat.)
–I would learn all the great Christmas events going on in my area (say, within a hundred mile radius) and would choose two or three of the most interesting and attend with family. I would worship the Lord Jesus Christ at every opportunity.
–I would send hand-written notes to singers and other performers whose artistry especially blessed me this year.
–I would work to read Scripture aloud for my people in better ways than I do now. And if I found someone–a teacher or an actor or anyone–gifted in the public reading of Scripture, I would bring him/her to my church and put them to work!
–I would often drop into the church sanctuary and spend time on my knees in prayer. It’s the best place and that’s the best thing.
And one thing more…
When Christmas Day was over, I would not take the following week as vacation. Nothing much is going on in town that week, and nothing is happening at church. So, this is a perfect week to hide in the church office and work on sermons for the New Year and beyond. Enjoy each evening with the family. Watch some ball games. Sleep late in the mornings.
Merry Christmas to you and yours. Heaven loves you enough to provide a Savior for you, for now and for always. You are amazingly blessed. Revel in it, friend.
Enjoy the joy.