Reasons Not To Give? They’re All Around.

When we say that when people bring their offerings to God, they’re doing so by faith, we mean two important things.

One: It means there are great reasons to give–such as God’s honor and His commands, God’s people and their needs, our gratitude for His blessing, and the personal benefit we derive from giving.

Two: It also means there are good reasons not to give. (That’s the nature of faith–there are reasons pro and con.)

We pastors are always telling people the first ones–why to give–without telling them the second, that they can find good reasons not to give and what they are.

I know, I know. They don’t need our help to find reasons not to give. They can find plenty on their own.

But still, we may want to offer a few biblical insights on reasons not to give to the Lord’s work.

Take the widow who gave her two mites, for example–a story found in several places in the Gospels, notably Mark 12.

The Lord and His disciples were standing to one side in the Temple watching as a line of contributors snaked through the worship center. One by one, the people dropped their offerings into the huge urns put there for collections.

“Watch this,” said the Lord, nudging the disciples just as a little widow woman dropped her two small coins–the smallest available–into the urn.

“All the rest gave out of their surplus,” Jesus said. “But she has given all she had. Therefore, she gave the most.”

I venture to say there’s not a preacher worth his salt who hasn’t preached that story a number of times. It’s an inspiring and positive lesson on giving.

But there is a negative lesson here, also.

If ever a person had a good reason not to give, that woman did. I’ve thought of four, you may come up with others:


1. She didn’t have much.

2. She needed what she had.

3. Her gift would not make much of a difference. The counters cared little whether the offering that day was $10,000.20 or just $10,000.

But the greatest reason she had for not giving was this:

4. The temple was under the control of a bunch of crooks. Jesus called them a “den of thieves.” (Mark 11:17)

Surely God would not want us to fund such a gang, would He?

Let’s camp out here for a moment.

Have you ever heard anyone say, “I don’t like what they’re doing down at the church, so I’m withholding my offering”? “I don’t like the preacher, so I’m sending my tithe somewhere else.” “I’ll start giving my money again as soon as they make some changes.”

I have. More than a few times.

How easily we decide to punish the Lord’s Church–the Bride of Christ, the Body of Christ, the Household of God–for something we don’t like or someone we disagree with.

How lightly we take our obligation to support the ministry of Jesus Christ through His Church!

How quickly we back away from our duties when we find the first excuse for slacking off.

It’s worth noting that Jesus was pleased with this woman who brought that offering, even if the Temple was being strangled by the shenanigans of the Sanhedrin.

This is probably the time to point out “reasons not to give,” those reasons make sense only from a humanistic point of view.

Never from God’s.

In fact, I can’t find in Scripture where the Lord ever told anyone something like, “Hey, look—you’re having a hard time. Skip your offering.”

Quite the opposite.

Elijah told the starving widow and her son, “Take the small amount of flour and oil you have and make a little bread cake for me first, then with whatever is left, prepare something for yourselves.” (I Kings 17) When she did as she was commanded, we read that the flour and oil never ran out for the duration of the drought.

By giving the little she had, she blessed herself in the long run.

Paul commended the poorest Christians on the planet for their generosity. Referring to the church at Macedonia, he tells the believers in Corinth,”In a great ordeal of affliction their abundance of joy and their deep poverty overflowed in the wealth of their liberality.”

Pretty impressive, huh? But wait, he’s not through bragging on the Macedonians. “For I testify that according to their ability, and beyond their ability they gave of their own accord.”

Great, huh? But there’s more: “Begging us with much entreaty for the favor (privilege) of participation in the support of the saints.”

More? Yep. “And this, not as we had expected, but they first gave themselves to the Lord and to us by the will of God.” (II Corinthians 8:1-5)

You get the impression the Lord is not particularly impressed either by our wealth or our poverty. In both cases, He expects His children to be faithful givers.

The amount and sometimes the nature of our gifts will vary. When Mary and Joseph dedicated their Holy Firstborn to God, they were so poor their offering was only a couple of birds. Moses specified in the Old Testament that if parents were so poor as not to afford the lamb, a pigeon or dove would be acceptable (Leviticus 12:6-8).

The poor do less. But they are still expected to be faithful.

Unemployed? Things tough? Having trouble making ends meet?

Don’t forget to give.

4 thoughts on “Reasons Not To Give? They’re All Around.

  1. I started reading your articles several weeks ago, and this is one of the best ones. Keep on writing and I will keep on reading.

  2. Yep. When people think the church or the pastor are outside of God’s will, they decide to take themselves out of God’s will by not tithing. An interesting approach. In other words, “That pastor is disobeying God, therefore I will choose to disobey God. That will prove that I am more righteous than he. Oh, and I hope to cripple the church’s ministry and stir up some controversy while I’m at it.” Pretty twisted reasoning if you ask me. Oh, you didn’t ask me.

  3. 1 – We give because we need to, not because God needs our money, nor the church, for that matter.

    2 – That widow died never knowing she had been noticed and years later would be immortalized in the New Testament. One of the great women of the world, who never knew.

  4. Bro. Joe,

    Our obligation is to obey where God directs our giving. After that, the results belong to Him, not us.

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