Demanding that the pastor preach your message

The angel of the Lord opened the prison doors and brought them forth, and said, ‘Go, stand and speak in the temple to the people all the words of this life” (Acts  5:20).

Go. Stand. Speak.

Preach the Word. Preach “all the words.”  Preach the Word as the Lord leads.

A denominational website reprinted an article of ours.  Most readers were appreciative but one guy left a comment instructing me on what to preach.

“You ought to be preaching on racism,” he said.  “The churches are full of it.”

He came back later with a post script.  “After the church shooting in South Carolina, the sale of Confederate flags and guns went through the roof.  Yet the churches were silent. This is sinful.”

Interesting.  He says the churches are full of racism and silent on the subject. You wonder how he knows this.

He is probably the kind of guy who thought our article on “godly mothers” was tame and harmless.  A real manly  preacher would roll up his sleeves and wade into the hot-button issues, wouldn’t he?  Enough with these sissy messages on love and humility, servanthood and Christlikeness.  Let’s stir up something, make some people angry, take a hard stand.

Make no mistake, I’m against racism.  And I’ve spoken out a-plenty on the subject.  But I’m not about to address some sin–or anything else for that matter– just because some guy I don’t know tried to push my buttons.

People do this to pastors all the time.

–“Pastor, you know this is right-to-life month.  We are expecting a strong one against abortion.”  (Anything wrong with preaching such a sermon? Not a thing.  But the issue here is people telling the pastor what to preach.)

–“Pastor, people would be giving more if you would preach on money more.  We need to hear from you.”  (No pastor should preach on giving just to generate more income.  If he does, his motivation is weak and his motives suspect.  We should preach on money because a) the Lord impresses us to do so, b) Scripture is saturated with teachings on the subject, c) people are held in bondage by their financial dealings and fears, and d) a healthy believer uses money to serve God.) 

–“Preacher, did you see where those believers in Catastrophia were killed while they were praying?  How come you’re not preaching about this?”  (The faithful are being martyred almost daily throughout the world, so this is not news.  Furthermore, babies are being aborted at alarming rates.  Some demonic warriors throughout the world practice genocide regularly.  Then, there is the problem of starvation, crime, drugs, and adultery.  Should the pastor let the crisis du jour dictate his sermon subjects?  Most of us have found that when we “preach the Word,” eventually we hit on all the needed subjects.)

When the Lord gives you a burden for a cause or a need, it’s your burden.  And it is not transferable.

Something like this happens throughout the world on a daily basis.  “Pastor, I was driving down the highway this week and noticed that little Dixieland Trailer Park.  It was almost time for school and there must have been a dozen children waiting for the bus.  And preacher, some of them looked poorly dressed, like they needed a coat, and it must have been freezing.  And that got me thinking.  That sad little trailer park is the last stop on the road to the poorhouse.  Pastor, our church ought to do something down there.  That would be a great place for a ministry.”

So far, so good.  And then, the speaker goes one step further.

“Pastor, I want you to look into getting some of our people involved in ministering in that trailer park.  I’ll check back with you later to see how it’s coming.”

See what just happened?

It might have been a trailer park, a housing project, a nursing home or a jail.  Maybe it was a run-down neighborhood or a neighborhood center.  The concerned member of your church saw it, felt compassion, and then wanted others to respond to his burden.

Don’t miss that.  He wanted others to respond to his burden.

Jill Briscoe expressed it eloquently a generation ago with her book titled Here am I; send Aaron.

It simply doesn’t work that way.

When God gives us a burden, it belongs to us.  It’s our burden.  And He expects us to respond with “Here am I; send me” (Isaiah 6:8)).

The Father will not allow us to palm off our burdens on others, no matter how well-intentioned we may be.

So, Pastor, if they try that little ploy on you–trying to get you to preach a sermon or start a ministry because of their concern–you owe them a 30 second sermon.  It might sound something like this:

“That’s fascinating, Bob.  Thank you for sharing that.  Now, do you have 30 seconds for something?”

He will.  Everyone has 30 seconds.

“Bob, in Scripture when God gives someone a burden, He wants that person to act on it.  So, if God has given you a burden for saving the life of the unborn, He wants you to do something about that.  You need to ask Him why He’s put this on your heart and what He wants you to do.  What you cannot do, however, is pass along your burden and conviction to someone else, even someone who loves you and respects you as much as I do.”

Or, this:

“Bob, I’m so glad to hear of your concern for the trailer park.  I assure you that every pastor wishes more of his members saw what you’ve just seen–people in need in their neighborhood–and wanted to do something about it.  But there’s one thing I need to tell you, Bob.  God gave you that burden, not me.  So, you are the one He wants to do something about it.  As to what He wants you to do, I have no idea.  But I suggest you take it up with Him in prayer.  Then, as He leads, drop by and visit the management of the trailer park.  Check into what’s going on there.  And pray some more. And when you get an answer, come back and tell me and I’ll be glad to do anything I can to help you make this a reality. But it’s your burden, Bob, and your call.”

Don’t be curt or rude, pastor.  Be affirming and encouraging.  The ministry of our church in Dixieland Trailer Park ended up being one of the finest church mission projects ever.  But it was never my vision or burden.  I merely supported and encouraged those who owned that burden.

A burden from the Heavenly Father is the forerunner of a ministry He wants begun.  And God gives burdens only to the most faithful, the most capable, the most dependable.

If He has given you a burden, feel complimented, friend.  He has plans for you.

4 thoughts on “Demanding that the pastor preach your message

  1. Thank you Brother Joe.
    I know your goal for this Blog is to encourage and direct pastors, but i have yet to read anything you have written that is not applicable to anyone who has the responsibility to lead others. Being a manager of even 1, one will experience the back stabbing, and other hurtful actions you and others have experienced as pastors.

    This article convinces me that the mountain before me is God Ordained (My Dixieland Trailer Park). Words cannot express my appreciation for you and your words of wisdom throughout the years. It will be wonderful when we all get to Heaven, and then you will realize the impact you have had on others by way of this Blog.

    Sincerely,
    David

  2. Bro. Joe, in my first pastorate after college, a man started attending our church. He had previously attended that church years before. He pointed to a room and said to me, “That used to be the prayer room. People prayed in that room during the service. You ought to get that going again.” I said, “That sounds like something the Lord has given you a burden for. Would you be interested in getting that started?” I never saw him again! There are many unofficial members on the nominating committee!

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