“What would you like me to do for you?” (Luke 18:41)
A servant asks: “What can I do for you?” “How may I help you?” “Can I do anything for you?”
But there is one question a true servant (as opposed to an employee) is not allowed to ask:
“What’s in it for me?”
My opinion is that the typical church in this country lives by the maxim: “If it doesn’t make us better or look better or feel better, we will not do it.”
What’s in it for our church?
I’m thinking of a little family in dire need of a healthy church and what it could provide for them. Over the years, a relative who is a pastor made a point of putting them in touch with at least one church in the various communities where they lived. Several of the churches responded well at first, then promptly dropped the family. Once they learned this family was going to be difficult, that they were not “low hanging fruit” (meaning “easy pickings”) they moved on. Once they found out this family was complicated and was not ready to join anybody’s church, they had no heart for the game.
The typical church loves to reach people who are reachable, who will fit within their fellowship, and will not require a lot of maintenance or difficult ministry.
The typical church–I am well aware of the dangers of using such a nebulous term, but please allow me the freedom to do so–lives for itself. The Kingdom of God ends at the edge of the parking lot.
Now, as a pastor of 42 years, I know the problem.
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