Woe to the preacher who gets his affirmation from the approval of his members. “It is the Lord Christ whom you serve” (Colossians 3:24). “Unto his master a servant stands or falls” (Romans 14:4).
This happened to me…
When the husband died, his wife of nearly 60 years was instructing me on how she wanted things done in the funeral.
She mentioned our associate pastor. “I don’t care for his funerals. He talks about himself too much.”
Okay. I had never heard his funeral sermons since he did these only when I was not available.
I said, “What do you think of mine?”
Dumb question. But I asked for it.
She didn’t hesitate to tell me.