“For those who serve well as deacons obtain for themselves a high standing and great confidence in the faith that is in Christ Jesus” (I Timothy 3:13).
It’s good to be a deacon. It is, that is, if you can pull off the servant, team-playing, supportive, and godly aspect.
Not everyone can.
Charlie and Robert are both Christians, friends of one another, and good guys. But when the deacon nominating committee approached both men about serving as deacons, the answers they received were completely opposite.
Robert: “Me? You think I’m deacon material? Wow. My dad was a deacon. I’m not sure I’m up to that standard. Can I have a day or two to pray about it and talk to my wife?”
Two days later, he accepted, and was ordained.
Charlie: “Are you kidding me? You think I’m deacon material? You sure are lowering your standards, aren’t you?” (Said with a laugh.) “My dad was a deacon, and I saw how he struggled with church issues. Give me a couple of days to think about it.”
Charlie called the committee two days later to decline. He said, “I just don’t think that’s for me. I’m not deacon material. Not yet, anyway.”
Here’s why Robert became a deacon and why Charlie did not.