“How are you feeling?”
That may be the most asked question in our culture today. If so, it’s also the most irrelevant one.
It’s never the first thing said. That’s always a greeting, something akin to “Good morning” or “Hey, how’s it going?” Then, as soon as that is accomplished, out comes the “feeling” question.
Whether the questioner really wants or is expecting an answer is debatable. But we ask it all the time.
I was speaking to an important gathering in the state capital and had been invited to bring a few family members. My 90-year-old dad had traveled nearly 200 miles with my brother Ron that morning. They walked into our hotel room around 10:30. My wife greeted my dad and hugged him.
“How are you feeling, Pop?” she asked.
Dad smiled and said, “Well, when I got up this morning I decided not to ask myself that question because I might not like the answer.”
Ah, wisdom.