Dear James,
I’m sorry for what you’ve been through. I suppose I’m the right one to unload on, having fought a few of these church battles over the years and with the scars to prove it.
Once a small group was meeting in the foyer of my church every Sunday to pool their hostilities and plan their attacks against me. Finally, I decided to call the attention of the congregation to what they were doing. In the sermon I said, “I want you who are doing this to know two things: God is using this in my life to make me stronger. And two, you will have to stand before Him and give account for what you are doing to His servant. When that time comes, I wouldn’t be in your shoes for all the money in the world.”
The good news in my case is that I outlived my opponents. Either they gave up or moved away or it could have been a couple of funerals, but the opposition died out and the last few years in that church were a dream. It was worth going through the storm to enjoy the sunshine on the other side.
Anyway, I want you to know I’m hurting for you. And I want to mention a couple of specific areas in which I am praying for you.
First, I pray that the day will come when you will look back at this as the best thing that has ever happened to you. Well, one of the best things.
I’m thinking of Eli, a preacher I knew from the time he was a college student. When he became a pastor, he was a holy terror. He packed the crowds in and reported huge numbers to the denomination, but he seemed to be angry all the time. I ran into him ten years later and he was a different person. His wife had divorced him and the church had fired him. He became a broken man. But then the Lord put him back together. At the time, he was serving on the staff of a church in a different state and having a significant ministry to people who had been chewed up and spit out by life.
I said to Eli, “Looking back at your previous ministry, you probably see a different quality in the work you’re doing now.” He laughed. “I’m doing the greatest work of my life. Everything I did before God broke me was in the flesh for my own glory.”
I heard an old preacher say once, “Sometimes the Lord has to get us flat of our back so we will look up.”
Anyway, James, I pray the Lord will use this in your life.
I remember something my Dad used to say about his six children. “I wouldn’t take a million dollars for one of them, and I wouldn’t give you a dime for another.” One day, that’s how you will feel about what you’re going through right now.
The other thing I pray is that you will get past the hurt and the pain and the Lord will heal you. And, I have some specific suggestions on how to do that.
Let me tell you a story.